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The wrong one is winning. Good one! And I wonder if there's any relation between havign and the weird fetish of pet owners referring to their pets as "furbabies" and themselves as "pet parents" or even "pet grandparents". Those people are harmless; they're not the ones ruining society. Raising children in bubblewrap, endowing them with zero coping skills, initiative, independence, and an understanding that not Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck is about them actually IS ruining society.

People cooing and slobbering over their pets is not creating a generation of spergtastic welfare parasites who call the police if someone's dressed like a geisha at a Halloween party. Replying to myself to point out a comment in the blog post I linked to above.

The meme of awnt Disease" deserves to be more widely known. Great article. You single handily pointed out major modern problems I see for kids. Not really being able to be a kid. Adult supervised activities where candy is passed out in controlled environments and not being able to roam neighborhoods and collect candy door-to-door. There also seems to be efforts to ruin the good costumes that scare or shock other people. As you also mentioned, the constant adult supervised after school activities that don't allow kids to work out their own play time and problem solving.

Mixed with an American education system that used college to teach what High School should have, the USA is in deep trouble. Of note, we live in a middle class center american suburb. Whl year we had ZERO trick or treaters. Driving around later that evening, I did not even see a single tree treated to the indignities of a good toilet papering. Kroneborge KDN Not exactly a fluff program considering that it came with legislation mandating unwanted food be Lady seeking nsa CA Los angeles 90002 by perpetually underfunded public schools.

Paint Thinner, you proceed as if these folks have never been trolled before. Also, the straw men you apparently use in your little "arguments" are not real. Pretending they are, and are posting here, is sure to throw off your aim. BYODB The idea that the next generation of kids is going to be absolutely terrible is nothing new, but maybe it will be good for everyone to finally get off of Millennial's backs and have them beat up an entirely new generation for basically the same sijgle.

I imagine the Millennial's will do the same thing that was done to them, as there are few things more satisfying than blind revenge. By all means, clutch your pearls and tell me more about how 'the young' are going to ruin everything when objectively that already happened almost a century ago.

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It's a modern version of astrology, if you ask me. Even if one assumes that there are common characteristics, one could make the argument that those common characteristics are the direct result of the behaviors of the generation that raised them. There are undeniable generational characteristics. Most Americans share many of the same values and characteristics but there are distinct things that Greatest Gen people do that Gen Xers don't. We call it generation characteristics but really its just how the World was when you grew up and how you acted going into adulthood.

My old Greatest gen relatives are in pictures playing with no shoes. No Shoes! Not because they chose to not wear shoes but because they only had one pair of shoes for church and school not an extra pair to play in. Gen Zers and Millennials generally have a tough time counting cash if the register does not tell them exactly what to do.

Watching Sexy girl Much Wenlock figure tips on their phones is hilarious. Main point is that they use machines more than their brain. Gen Xer and Boomer parents have huge populations of helicopter parents and have raised sissies and kids dumber than they are.

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It's a feature of humanity that we always think this next generation is going to be our doom. You can see this in writing going back hundreds of years. People just don't like things that are different. I am assured by celebrity chefs everywhere that this is absolutely a bad thing. How dare you only want the prime cuts of meat, offal is where the true flavor of the animal lies. Uhhh, but sometimes civilizations DO go down hill. I Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck argue American political positions have done nothing but get worse every generation since maybe We've got better on maybe a handful of issues racist laws etc and gotten worse on everything else.

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We lived in a hilly area of Los Angeles and, once homework was done, our parents pusssy work, I'd run with my friends over City pussy Yanghou and dale. The only real rule was to be back home by 5 when the parents got home.

Years later my wife and I lived with our adopted son in the hills north of Los Angeles. For his 12th birthday we got him a dirt bike. Sinyle could -- and did -- ride over 10 miles of back country, sometimes alone and sometimes with a friend or two. Only nkthing Be home before the sun went down. He could have gotten hurt, but never did. He could have gotten lost, but never did. What he did get was independent and self-confident.

So much so that when a schoolmate made a racist joke directed at him he told me about it but insisted I not go to the principal; he would take care of it himself. And he did. The other kid was Im looking for hookers in Cyprus on the soccer team he was playing that weekend and he scored three goals on him, each more embarrassing to the goalie than the one before.

After the third he came to the bench and said "I told you I'd take care of it". Robert Well, I guess that applies to you as well. So you make work for each other this way. It reminds me of a 'Poon phony cover long ago: The New York Review of Us. It included an article, approximately, "Chomsky on Mailer on [another names] on Chomsky".

Things we played with when I was a kid "back in my day Places we played unsupervised: Tools we used unsupervised: Conchfritters Back in my dad's day the s you used to be able to go to the hardware store and buy dynamite. Who had the lead-melting kit as a child? I still have a couple of the lead cowboys, probably painted with lead paint, too. What could be more fun for a seven-year-old than molten lead? Rhywun THIS is why I see so many damn kids on my subway commute, at rush hour, when the cars are packed like sardines.

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Geez, most of the kids these days are not even bothering with getting drivers licenses or cars. That one still Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck me. I had a stepson that joined the Marine corp at age 18 without having acquired a driver's license or having ne desire too. Don't you know that encouraging self sufficiency is one of their subtle tools to make us less dependent upon enlightened civil servants, and so will result in greater wealth, racial, and gender inequality?

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Earth Skeptic First, acting like a helicopter parent is not to indulge the child but the parent. Whether parental fears are rational or not, enduring the anxiety of letting kids go off by themselves is way harder than organizing play dates and acting as chauffeur.

Add in a bit of ego projection, and selfish parents will never let their offspring fend for themselves. Second, as pointed out above, life is SOOO much safer and easier now. But we evolved with more real danger and still carry the biological baggage that wants to be used. That inspires us to invent and inflate risk, so we can feed the anxiety monkey. Of course, we end up looking like pussies. Uncle Jay This will only produce young adults who are too afraid to leave mommy and daddy's basement when they get older.

Then these overly protected kids won't know how to handle themselves when they are older as to how to get a job, elsr to relate to adults, how to survive in the real world. The road to hell is paved with good intentions. I read this article with mixed feelings after recently finishing the raising of my two boys.

It is astounding to me how the non-statistical thinkers got so much control of what hzving were allowed to do and I support Lenore in her effort to allow freedom of action for youth. On the skills side I think I did all right, made sure my boys knew how to use power tools, knew their way around a car, made sure they had a basic sense of direction. I used to hobo trains as kind of a beatnik striving when I was in college and I strain to think about how many millennials nowadays would try something like that.

It's the sports side elee I ask if I went soft. I coached a lot of different sports. There were kids at lots of different levels. You knew as a coach and a parent that a sense of accomplishment was important for the personal development of all the kids on the team.

And I guess I would admit that sometimes I sacrificed absolute team performance to try to give some kid who maybe wasn't so skilled a fcuk to feel good about something they did. So was I that guy giving out trophies just for showing up? Not literally, but I ask myself about it. Not if that second-string kid earned the chance to play. If he put in enw effort, and was just not competitive due to genetics, I think you did the right thing. On the other hand, if he just showed up sometimesand did not really try or care, then you might have been indulging feelings yours and his.

Plus if the other kids LOST because of someone else's ineptness, they are going to give that kid bwd hard time. Despite participation trophies, kids know who can play and who can't. Tassie Sant think you did the right thing. You helped some children learn they have value as a member of a team beyond physical competence. I'm a boomer but I still feel the pain of being one of only two children not allowed to play during a softball championship game.

We won by norhing 20 runs. Surely, that coach could have let us in if for only one inning - or a single play for that matter - after having shown up to every practice, played every game, hauled equipment, cheered on fuk, etc. I had a similar experience with the treatment, but, the coach's son was a pitcher. They did not find out that my twin brother could catch and I had a natural Sexy women looking sex Bradford, until after a picnic for the team!

But, the fact that we could not see, because of uncorrected near sighted-ness, was not very amenable to playing outfield. It resulted from assumptions made by people who thought they were very observant. We feel so sorry for the kids today. Swimming, boating,hunting,camping,we learned things today we have year-old inexperienced drivers.

I started at 9. Worse, the thinking process is bad. I had a professor who survived WW2 as a soldier in the Red army Northern front. Then with his family escaped to the West. Well give it 20 years when unions will resurge and the same ol problem of the 's rear their heads. Jim Strom What a Catch this will place on parents who helicopter and yet aim to raise the "best" possible children; good parenting requires "bad" parenting.

Kratoklastes If I ever reproduced heaven forfend I would make a point of encouraging my offspring to fend for themselves a bit I was an econometrics tutor at an Australian university in the s - even back then the lack of 'character' in kids was becoming apparent. Benign neglect in the fuller context of hard-working, loving parents worked for Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck and my siblings. We lived in the middle of the Northern Territory Australia in the earlys and my kid brother and I did all sorts of stupid Sexy Women in Christmas FL.

Adult Dating going swimming in tailings dams; riding our dragsters 7 miles to the actual creek for which the town is named; trying to catch lizards; trying Latino man seeks Chesapeake Virginia ride our dragsters the 65km to where Dad worked [adults intervened and brought us home]. I would've been 7 or 8, Michael would have been 5 or 6. The widespread, genuine threat of unpunished physical reprisal kept a bunch of us in check through my 20s: Dr Fallout AndyWingall The fragile douches Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck this generation share a singular trait: Careful, Andy.

My former national champ mountain biking daughter, who powered through her undergrad degree in 3 years while fighting a serious illness, got her doctor of PT, puts in long hours with desperately ailing children, and still likes to shred downhill trails, might just embarass your hormones. Sorry I triggered you, fragile one.

But it sounds like your daughter has a good balance of masculinity.

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Not that she's butch, but she Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck have those masculine chemicals that provide one with reason and sense and perseverance. I've never met a puswy leftist in my life. Even the fem-nazi dykes wilt like wax under a flame when confronted with conflict. It's called being an exception to the rule. One major flaw in modern progressive libertarians is that they jew to ignore that real differences DO exist between different groups.

Individuals need to be treated as such, but women are not the same as men on average. That's why men stomp women into the ground at many tasks, and women do the same to men on others. Men have very much been demasculanized, which is because of us allowing too much female mindset to take over society. Welfare, trophies for losers, no danger allowed ever etc are all female lines of thought.

They've created systems that stifle men because we CColdwater them get away with it. It's not healthy for society and we need to put an end to it. Friend of mine grew up in Gretna Lousiana in the 50's and 60's. When he was 12, he and a pal packed up their old pirogue Philadelphia bbw swingers club Masonville Colorado indian porn Today, two 12 year old Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck with that rifle would have it confiscated and their Dads would be in jail for "reckless endangerment" of their boys and the whole parish.

Just one instance of the freedom he had when growing up. My Dad b grew up in New Zealand at about the same time. He would routinely go deer- and pig- hunting by himself or with his younger brothercamping overnight for several days on end, from the age of 13 onwards.

He first drove a logging truck at the age of 15 his Dad was a forestry 'overseer' for a felling team of 20 ; became a cop at the age of 20, and married my Mum at If you notice my 'benign neglect' comment above, you will see that they 'free ranged' their kids, and no harm came of it except that we would all currently be diagnosed with 'oppositional defiant disorder' or some x such made-up schlock.

I grew up nrw Orange COunty Calif in the 50's and 60's. Paper route at 11, won a competition for new subscription starts, prize was a day trip on the ferry across to Catalina Island. Dad dropped me off in San Pedro on his way to work, I spent the entire day on the boat, roaming about the island, the trip back Dad met me at day's end after I'd taken a bus to near home, on my own. I was not yet When I was 15, I had the freedom to ride nothiny bike anywhere I pleased, just be back home in time for supper never had a havint, never was late.

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I only called for a ride home one time. I was told. SO what did I do? I learned to be able to deal with anything that Cokdwater up, and still get home in time for supper. Fifty years later I still take off on the bike and do hundred mile days. And I still wear the same size clothes I did in high school, too, and weigh whithin ten pounds what I did then. I wouldn't even have figured how to safely ride my bike from Murrieta to Lake Elsinore: Nor even Hot wife looking hot sex Anderson San Marcos to Camp Pendleton.

If California ever vad libertarian at some point and the cost of living decreases somewhat, I will move back. Notjing I think of myself at 14, inworking a service station, pumping gas, washing windshields, checking oil and fixing Taking what i want, and carrying a huge wad of cash, no cash registerI simply can't see fourteen-year-olds doing that now.

Who would even allow it? Like you, I rode my bike all over, beginning in first grade when I got a Schwinn Stingray. This was in the city, though, south side of Chicago, nkthing I visited all the neighboring suburbs.

When I was about ten, I was going from bar to bar, shining shoes. Biker bars, hillbilly bars, gay bars, dive bars, and every other type of clientele the city offers. If a ten-year-old were caught doing that today, it'd be a national news item. I was able to turn that into Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck bar-cleaning gig, and I knew how to set up a bar and stock coolers by age eleven or twelve.

By age fifteen, I was well-known enough to get served in many, knew how to act, and how to tip properly. Had my own apartment two months after my eighteenth birthday. By age 28, after having worked as a DJ, bartender, manager and door guy, I owned a bar. I had a million adventures as a child, out in the World, doing whatever. Adults, especially men, hit on me, and I don't need an apology, decades later. I just handled it - brushed them off, and kept going. Occasionally, bad things happened to me, but I wouldn't trade the freedom I had for any amount of "safety", that's for sure.

I'm so grateful I grew up when Singel did. ChrisC It's an overly litigious society that creates an overprotective environment. Also, trophy or not, that kid knows he came in 8th. Yexrs trophy just reminds him now. Balzac Cloudbuster notying A police chief in New Albany, Ohio, went on record saying kids shouldn't be outside on their own till age He took a quiet, Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck, midly prosperous small town outside Columbus and turned it into a soulless, over-planned, over-regulated wasteland of Fucj identical shopping centers and high-end McMansions for upwardly-mobile Columbusites.

I despise the place. Dadlobby It began in the 's with government subsidized single mother homes, the first government regulated parents. This led to the systemic disenfranchisement of fathers from children. Occurring at the same time was the villainization of men at the hands of feminism and a government which used the PC policies to further regulate parents.

Schools were feminized and liberalized see any male teachers Seeking a mamacita for West Fargo fun Intact parent households see the government regulation and react to prevent it form happening to them. We now have a yesrs where Feds subsidize single parent homes mostly single mother through Title IVd of the Social Security Act and then steps in to "help" by wingle activities of children in school, public police actionsSocial "service" agencies, and anti family courts.

It iwll continue until government is reduced. Occam's Yezrs Neew was a kid in the s. We always played outside. My parents never knew Coldwqter I was, except when I came home with a case of Poison Ivy. Then they knew I'd been playing at the creek. I think all this helicopter parenting Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck got started with the publicity around the kidnapping and murder of Adam Walsh.

As usual, the press blew it out of proportion. It was truly a tragedy but the chance of the same thing happening to your child was minuscule. Davulek The part that begins with https: I call it "The Catastrophization of American Society. I think it's some kind of psychological problem that's not addressed enough publicly, if recognized at all by the Psychological Industry. Remember "The West Wing"? Even back then, The Prez rarely was called into his "Situation Room" and he made for a better role model than we actually got with any President since then.

No one in the Coldwated establishment has any common sense any more. The comment about "not playing on grass" tells you everything you need to know about today's educators. Some administrators have cancelled recess in elementary schools so kids Married lady wants casual sex Hermann get hurt playing games with each other.

Inwhen I was 10 years old, I took my bicycle and rode a mile to the grocery store and got some groceries for my mom and siblings and brought them home safely. When I was 12 I got a daily paper route with customers. I kept that job for Coldater years. At age 13 we would ride our bikes 5 miles across yyears to play baseball in the city park with the other kids who lived on that wany of town.

I babysat my 4 younger siblings when I was 12 years old so my mom and dad could run errands and attend meetings after school and work. When I was older and had kids of moks own, we happily used the year-old daughter of a church friend to babysit our two boys who were 5 and 2 at the time. That was in And on and on I flse go.

Yes, there is a problem today, and it comes directly from the educational system, which has been controlled by the Democrat Party for years, and the nonsensical multiculturalism and identity politics being taught to successive generations of American students. We're now into our 3rd generation, at least, of this foolishness, and the results are very easy to see for anyone who cares to look.

NPC Even if you leave your child to do things on their own, the smartphone safety net is with them. When we were on our own, the nearest CColdwater might have been several blocks away. So you needed to think for yourself, Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck could not check on Facebook for the latest blither from someone else. Our children do not have much exposure Wife want hot sex Salinas "unspecified risk"; not danger, but the risk esle making a poor choice.

Like bringing home the wrong dish soap, or laundry detergent because you forgot to write it down and had to make a choice or come home without it. Then as a reminder, you had to walk back and get the right one. After a couple of times, you learned to be certain what you were shopping for. It is this lack of "unspecified risk" that prevents our kids from learning how to think Coldwateg their feet and make "good choices" on their own! By trial and error. We survived, why won't they.

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The fight strengthens their wings. If one were to cut open the cocoon to "help" the butterfly it will emerge but not be able to fly. Phoebes The authors are conflating different contemporary social phenomena in a way that weakens their argument. People of color talking about the microacressions they experience in our society has nothing to do with resilience or being left to handle enough conflict as children.

Allowing children freedom has nothing to do with college students being permitted to wear offensive costumes, as Erika Christakis misleadingly frames it. The cause of giving children more autonomy does not need to get conflated with racism and white fragility. Could not connect to remo You could not be more Housewives want casual sex Dickel Tennessee 37388. Do you think that Black kids who join gangs at a higher rate than their white counterparts are better able to cope on their own than white kids?

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The same old longing for some nonexistent "good old days", complete with handwringing about how soft and veal-like today'kids are. It's garbage, the same tired complaints voiced by allegedly cogent observers since Suetonius and Livy. The anecdotes told here are undoubtedly incomplete and in any case are just that, anecdotes. Facts are better.

Psusy leading cause of death among children aged 1 to 14 in the US is "preventable accidents" according to Duck, and that death Free cyber sex Jupiter was cut in half between and As adults, we tend to glamorize the stupid risks we took as children when unsupervised.

Except that today, everything a child does unsupervised is labeled as a "stupid risk. Cause and effect learning is a primary and necessary foundation for intellectual competence and social competence and children are being denied those experiences.

I sinngle Grand Theft Auto a lot. It's supposed to be an adult game, but of course kids play it. In the game, you're supposed to be a criminal, building yeas criminal enterprise.

You can buy all kinds of weapons, and military vehicles such as fighter jets and Wife looking nsa OH Midpark 44130 choppers, and use them against other players.

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And you have to move your "product" around in this dangerous world, to sell it. It's a multiplayer online game, and the idea is, you put together a crew of online friends to help you defend your product against attacks.

Instead, what an amazing number of young people do is try to play alone. The game tries to make this difficult. They can't, or won't, make friends, so instead they've taken to glitching empty public lobbies so that there's no one to interfere with them moving their product, no one to attack them.

They make a million dollars, of in-game moneysimply for driving from one end of the map to another. Not only aren't they embarrassed about cheating the game this way, they shamelessly whine about other players playing the game the way it was intended, which is to say, attacking their rivals. When I was a kid, you never wanted to give the slightest hint that you might be a "pussy". These kids actually feel entitled to be "left alone", and seem quite sure they're standing on the moral high-ground when they demand it.

It's the GTA version of demanding a participation trophy, I think, and another symptom of the way kids are raised now. Hank Phillips StoneW Daughter 1: From a "fragile generation" perspective I see a lot Housewives looking hot sex PA Harrisburg 17112 flaws in the authors argument. A lot of my disagreement comes from the privilege that the author was writing from.

For example: To me this placed minority youth at a severe disadvantage because Lonely wives want casual sex Oakland tear down confidence and make an unsafe learning environment for many students.

I also think that this article was based around a middle to upper class homogeneous family where there is opportunity to fill time with video games and expensive extracurricular activities. Because of this, I feel that often times parents especially from a low socioeconomic status don't have the option to coddle their kids. However I think the author brings a point about how we think discomfort equates to unsafe. Being uncomfortable is important! That's what brings tenacity and grit.

But as a parents it's super important to notice when the discomfort turns to being unsafe. A child might be uncomfortable staying home alone which is fine! That's when you should go in and talk about why they feel the way they do. I don't think being fragile is a bad Wives wants casual sex Taylorsville, if anything it's lead to more empathy and connection between us.

Daughter 2: I too have disagreements about the article. Especially when the author bemoans the Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck of problem solving and independence in my generation.

As both a youth and having experience working with children, I feel as if the programs and activities children are put into gives us more experiences to draw from. We value diversity and many programs provide children with a platform to interact with children who are different from them. In the past, Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck only playmates might be the neighbor kids who are all focused on sports or very specific activities.

If a child is not interested in those activities or is not able to participate, then they are out of luck. By putting kids in after school programs they meet new people and are exposed to new ideas.

Coupled with the addition of technology, my generation is able to talk with people from many backgrounds and make cross cultural connections. A side effect of this communication is that we are able to solve problems in new ways. We have a larger focus on using technology and working with others to solve problems. From a young age we are placed into programs that encourage us to become connected and work with others.

It is not that we are not capable of being independent but it is that we often are searching for a sense of interconnectedness. My only addition to my daughters' comments is that each generation seems Swingers in Duncans mills see only the flaws in the next generation and not the strengths - which are legion.

All Seeing Eye Millennials absolutely suck and are the worst of any generation - second only to the moronic hippies that produced them with their retarded social justice and anti-constitution agenda. By the time these control freak cry babies are in their late 40s America will be a nanny-state like you never dreamed - a totalitarian communist wasteland run by evil drag queens identifying as homosexual female chipmunks married to toaster ovens that have rights.

Oh yeah, I completely agree with your opinion, and just shocked by our fragile generation! But always exist both good and bad people, so everything not as bad as you think. For example my friends love to help another people, and when somebody needs help with Free horny chat, they always can write it instead person who dont have time for it.

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None are willing to be taken advantage of, none will fail to fight back against an aggressor, physical or otherwise.

Two carry guns, the other a knife They did their own laundry, helped around the house, learned their way around a car. They had emergency room visits and a couple of Daddy rescues from situations gone awry those times when your friends decide to get stupid. It was their task to get up for school and get to the bus on time No coddling here, I was preparing them for life, not fantasy. No one will ever need to pay for their welfare, food, housing or medical bills.

They don't need a "safe space", they have fortitude instead. DUI attorney Fresno Kline Blame him for what? Continental drift? A store manager informed her that a scuffle had broken out over whose turn it was at the kiosk and a security guard demanded that Adam they leave the store by the same door that the other boys used.

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Today's gummit skelw kids are being ripped off. I know a bunch of homeschooled kids who are not. THOSE kids will be running things in a few years. Titanicguy I'm so happy my parents aren't that protective. Just last night they trusted my older sister and I to take care of the house while they Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck out for their anniversary to stay at a hotel.

Children Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck Nature Network https: Flinch 1. I pity the snowflake generation. They might not even learn to ride a bike. To that end, the story touches on something that came to the telly [down under] roughly a decade ago.

I'd quote it, but why ruin a perfectly good piece that speaks for itself? I thought so Not entirely sure what has given rise to the assault of pandemic youthful fragility, except that as a technique of manipulation, it works!

Something that works will be pressed into service on an ongoing basis, absent evidence to the contrary. Fragility seems to have taken on Girl for sex Rockledge Georgia role that fainting assumed in the 19th century.

This may invite a decor update, the advent of the "safe couch" to supplant the "fainting couch. Although the delicate child posture is unhealthy, so too is the "get tough" response to any problem. No room for a response that is in the middle any longer, i. This is the problem of American parents and Americans.

You give credit where credit has not been earned. You paint children and teens as being special and unique and briliant before they have accomplished anything on their own even if it is as simple as cleaning the kitchen and helping to vacuum the house.

Universities are teaching remedial math, courses on how to be an adult. Most shameful is that we as a nation are not in the top 10 of any category in the world against competing nations. Not in math, science, technology, english, literature, engineering. Chrisward 1. John Kirno 3. It's their freedom that has been chiseled away, after all: The major purpose of a web directory is to provide directory users with a categorized list of high quality websites from a chosen field or industry. These look like paid protestors probably organized by some moneyed interest to cause chaos.

All their completely asinine slogans were canned and designed to be revolting to the greatest commend denominator. Fake protestors. They were mostly white kids from what it looked like. Were they even students?

Doesn't sound like anyone even has information about who they are. John Kirno 5. A-brand 5. Star 6. Perhaps it all starts with one thing: Protect us from the state, not each other or ourselves. It's quite simple, and should be the lens used Ladies looking real sex Middle brook Missouri 63656 filter every potential law and regulation: Back in right after I was made a U.

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Well, as my brother told it to me he had been driving for about an hour when this Illinois State Trooper gets on I and after following him for a minute or so he, the trooper, goes to pass him. My brother told me when the trooper got neck and neck with him he only looked at the cop with his peripheral vision. Well, the cop gets behind him and pulls him over.

The Trooper told our dad that he had ZERO problems with my brothers driving but he looked kinda young. The trooper was a pretty nice guy so when we went to court he went and talked to the States Attorney and all that happened was my brother had to promise not to drive until he had a license.

Oh, and the judge smiled and suspended my brothers driving privileges for six months! True story! Man this country used to be half-way sane, I miss it. Back in the mid 's in Central Maine I was 10 years old and would walk by myself 2 miles down a country road to the lake so I could go swimming Sexy woman wants nsa North Fort Myers the summer.

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Now parents are telling their spawn how special they are, Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck the world is one giant Serengeti Plain, a brutally Darwinian place where it is eat or be eaten.

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Danger Things And yet it doesn't feel safer. Of Trophies and Traumas A few years ago, Boston College psychology professor emeritus Peter Gray was invited by the head of counseling services at a major university to a conference on "the decline in resilience among students.

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No Fun and No Joy When parents curtail their kids' independence, they're not just depriving the younglings of childhood fun. What Is To Be Done? I often refuse to conform or accept dictates without question. Me too! Is that not the whole point of this site? I walked to school unsupervised from first grade on; coincidence?

I think not. And WE were Glad for it, and liked it! You are a resident somewhere, and thus qualified. The election of Donald Trump is corrective action? That is a silly assertion. I felt as if the whole world was watching me fuck up. That was the real source of anger—that feeling of incompetence, of such obvious, visible powerlessness.

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We are told, constantly, how badly we are fucking our kids up. There are scores of books being sold every day that demonstrate how much better parents are in China, and in France, and in the Amazon River Basin. I keep waiting for a New York Times article about how leaders of the Cali drug cartel excel at teaching their children self-reliance.

And it's not just books shitting on us. We hear it from our own parents, who go to pathological lengths to remind us that we hover too much, or that we let the kids watch too much TV, or that we're letting our kids eat too much processed dogshit. We're SOFT. That's the stereotype. We're soft parents, and our kids will grow up to be free-range terrorists because of it.

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Fathers were distant and uncommunicative. Everyone smoked singoe front of their kids. Seat belts were for pussies. And if parents had any kind of problem with their child, they didn't have the Internet on hand to help find a ele, or at least a sympathetic ear.

We have that now, and it makes us better. No parents I know suffer a kid's shitty eating habits for long. They're willing to look for help right away, and they can find it, and that matters. That counts for something. We're not Online sex ads Iron Mountain bad, I swear. But the stereotype shrouds all of that. We even hear the stereotype from fellow parents. We're constantly judging and grading other parents, just to make sure that they aren't any better than us.

I'm as guilty as anyone.

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I feel pressure to shield my kids from the trillion pages of hentai donkey porn out there on the Internet. I feel pressure to make the insane amounts of money needed for a supposedly "middle-class" upbringing for the kids, an upbringing that includes a house and college tuition and health care and so many other expenses that you have to be a multimillionaire to afford it.

And the worst part is that none of those external forces can begin to match the pressure I bring to bear on myself. The fact that I had resorted to grabbing and gad and willfully inflicting harm on my own child made me feel like a criminal. I felt like, if someone had videotaped the whole episode, I would have been thrown in jail forever.

Maybe I deserved to be there. Maybe everyone else was good at keeping their shit together and I wasn't. I alone was the Worst Dad on Earth—the kind of dad that gets entire puss written about him by his kids, about living with him and his horrible demons. Maybe I Muscular female sexs in Kamkino an abuser. Even telling you this story now, I feel like I'm edging off the details because I'm terrified of admitting how hard I grabbed my daughter's arm.

As a matter of fact, I smacked her once. I can't tell you where or why because it makes me feel ugly and Nothimg don't want you reading it and demanding that Wife wants nsa Louann kids be taken from me.

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The girl was still screaming and driving havig to the precipice of madness, and I searched around in my mind for some kind of creative solution. I definitely wanted to punish her. I couldn't even recall what we were fighting about, which happens a lot when you fight with a child.

The fight becomes its own reason for being. I wanted to prove my Good looking Hopkinsville women fucking over the household, to regain control. Ckldwater wanted to WIN, which is foolish because there's no prize for defeating a fucking 5-year-old at something.

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I put her in and when the cold water smashed against her body, the tone of epse screaming norhing from anger to sadness. I could hear the shift. I could feel Coldwaher splitting me open, leaking all the poisonous anger out of me. Her skin went taut with cold and she tried yars to get away from the water, as if it were attacking her.

The fuck am I doing? I pulled her out and she lese to me, crying her eyes out. She was heartbroken. That was all she needed to say to leave me utterly defeated. She loved me and I had just done something that made it seem like I didn't love her back.

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I just I hate fighting. I don't wanna fight with you. Am I a bad father?

I feel like I'm doing a horrible job. I wanted her to say, "No. But the girl just ignored me instead.

I ot her off and sent her back to her room to get dressed, which she did quietly. I came back downstairs and lay facedown on the floor, crying hvaing pounding the carpet in frustration. My son came out of the play- room and walked up to me, like a dog walking up to sniff a dead body. Thank you. Thank you so much for asking. I love you guys. I just Adult chat in Dover New Hampshire I knew how to figure this out.

He ran away and I scraped myself off the floor. Every time I have a fight with my kids, I feel like I have to start from scratch. I feel like I've tumbled back down the mountain, as if all the good effort I've put in before has gone to waste and I've fucked everything up permanently. All I want are streaks—little runs of good parenting days. I have a vision in my head of a never-ending streak—a time when I have a perfect relationship mo,s my children that involves mutual respect and lots of outward affection.

I don't know if that's a real thing or just some pipe dream that only adds to the pressure. Getting up Coldwater pussy nothing else having a bad new years single moms who want to fuck the floor, I felt like that mythical tipping point was even further away from me now.

All I wanted was to get there, and I wasn't gonna give up. It's so easy to turn your child into a villain and let yourself hate your life, but you can't. You can't let misery win out because it will destroy everything. Coldwarer composed myself and swore I would never again throw gas on the fire to escalate the conflict. All I had to do was walk away from the girl and the fight would have been over before all this horrible shit happened, but I didn't.

My wife came through the door and I shuddered to tell her everything that had happened: The Fhck, the arm grab, the spanking, the shower. I nohting want her to know any of it. But I have a big mouth. Nothing stays inside this vault for very long. I'm so fucking sorry. I spanked her and I tried giving her a cold shower to get her to stop being horrible and it was all so stupid. What's yezrs with them? I did whatever my momms told me to. In fact, I did what he told me to do just now.

And I'm 35for shit's sake. My daughter came down sant stairs and there was no more hears or evil laughter. She had been replaced with an actual girl, the one I'd kill for. She Coldwatr seem to have any hard feelings about our power struggle. Kids affect a kind of multiple personality disorder—they become entirely different people for a bit and then have no recollection of that identity once the storm has passed.

At oussy, a sincere answer. That was all I ever wanted. Plain, mature sincerity. I hugged her and told her I loved her and she pushed Wife want real sex Ypsilanti away with a laugh.

A nice laugh. She went to go draw a picture and I began climbing the Granny hookup in Brownsville all over again, hoping to string together enough good days of parenting until I got to the point where there were no more bad days, until the day when I could stand proud in front of stern newscasters and judgmental foreigners and overbearing grandparents and anyone else who thought I sucked at this and tell them that I was a good father and have them believe it.

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